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Threesome

by Lauri Loewenberg

Dear Lauri,
I dreamed I had a threesome with the standup comic Louis CK and a chick I knew in high school. I remember that he had on a black shirt and we were in a darkened room. The girl I knew from high school is a blond in real life but her hair was black in the dream. She did not say a word. Then Louis CK told my boyfriend, and he was totally ok with it. I like Louis CK’s humor but I don't see him as someone I'd want to hook up with! WTH?  – Shelly 33, Norfolk, VA.
 

Lauri: We all hook up with people we wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole in our dreams. Remember, sex in a dream isn't about a physical union you want but rather a psychological union you need. That being said, Louis CK is not playing himself but instead represents some quality you need to or have recently merged into your life or behavior. Anything you need to have a sense of humor about lately? All the black in the dream and the darkened room is most likely connected to dark thoughts or emotions, or possibly mourning, so yet another reason to try to hold on to a sense of humor. It is also significant that you remember the girl in the dream not saying a word. This would suggest there is something in your real life you are not speaking up about or don’t wish to discuss.

Shelly Replies: We lost my uncle last weekend to cancer. My family has been handling the pain by telling fun stories about him. I have been sitting Shiva (a Jewish ritual after death) with my family and saying prayers with them. When my mom asked how great it felt to have faith again, I told her that I was doing it for the family, not because I suddenly believe again. I've said this to her before, but this time she said "We need to talk later about this," which was a different response than normal. Wow. It’s WILD how much that makes sense!

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