I’m getting married in July but I keep dreaming that I’m getting married and it’s the wrong day and nothing is done. Everything is disorganized and I’m running around in my wedding dress trying to organize things before guests arrive. All the wedding plans are up to date. In fact the only thing left to do is print and send the invites. So I'm confused as to why I am having these dreams. – Cindy 24, Toronto, ON
Lauri: What you have here is what I call a "bridemare!" A bridemare is a common stress dream that pretty much all brides get leading up to the big day. I can assure you the dream is not a warning that anything is going to go wrong so let's look at the details and see if we can't get some specific guidance for you. The disorganization in the dream may be connected to disorganized thoughts or issues in waking life. Have your thoughts been scattered lately? Is there any uncertainty right now in regards to the wedding? Is there a current issue you want to straighten out before the big day? The fact that the day is wrong in your dream suggests you feel something isn't quite right yet in real life. Look at friendships, family, any issues from the past, as well as any issue between you and your fiancé and ask yourself if there is something that needs to be corrected, healed or put into place before the big day so that you can walk down the aisle with peace of mind.
Cindy replies: My mom and step dad are in Guyana. I sent an invitation to them and I'm waiting for them to take it to the embassy and get it approved. I keep thinking that they won't get to come for the wedding. This makes sense now.